Post # 2
We are talking single action trigger here.
If you have a very light trigger, you may use the pad, but I rather use the joint of the trigger finger it is more powerful and positive - the difference between a pry bar and a hydraulic jack . With lots of triggers, you can feel the trigger creep with the joint, because you can move it so slowly.
Now a little on the thought process.
Don't decide NOW and pull the trigger.
When we were taking driver training, they told us to look far off down the road and your brain will take over aiming the car and steering it evenly between the line and the shoulder. If we constantly look at the line and the shoulder and the fenders, we will wiggle down the road like a snake.
When aiming the gun, imagine a laser line from your muzzle to the bull. The bullet slides down this line to the target. Imagine as you are tightening the trigger, that it is a matter of making that bullet slide down the line.
Envision the bullet doing the trip down the laser to the bull and your brain will take over the trigger pull. This helps to keep your hand steady until after the bullet has left home.
Now - back to our hold.
As I grasp my handgun with my right hand, there is a large unsupported area on the grip - I can wrap my left around and cover it and pile my fingers up like cordwood on the front of the grip, but as I do my alternate hand squeezing exercises, I find that my sights are moving - a lot. When I tighten up both hands in my hold, my thumbs and fingers all tend to fight - one against the other.
BUT - If I hold with right, then lay my big old thumb up the bare space on the grip, the fingers go under the grip and come up the other side to sqeeze the back of my right hand.
The heel of my left extends down under my wrist joint and helps to lock it up and my left pinky is against the other side of that joint.
Now - back to the squeezing exercises and I do better.
Firm squeeze with the right and lots of thumb pressure ( simple pressure with no twists) with the left. We are just filling in the unsupported side of the grip and locking up the right wrist with the left hand.
The grip strength with the strong ( right for me ) hand will tend to lessen as you shoot - keep it constant.
Two final repeats on that - no fighting among members and slide the bullet all the way to the target.
It is not the squeezing the trigger so much as the release when it lets go that jiggles the gun.
Another hold that I have enjoyed - the spider hold - left fingertips just very lightly touch the right hand fingers and thumb like a spider sitting - so as to not interfere with the recoil at all. The muzzle flip and recoil are the last effects we have on the bullet so keeping them constant by a uniform grip is important.
Double up on your hearing protection - it allows you to concentrate - shoot alone if you feel any peer pressure - escape into your own little world.
That was my own.