There are several ways, one of which is to buy a Stoney Point Cartridge Length Gauge. These are actually handy gadgits, but they are cartridge specific, which is why I haven't bothered to buy one.
My own system is as follows. Take a bullet and place it nose down in the muzzle. With moderate hand pressure twist the bullet, and a line will be scored on the bullet at the ogive. Next, place a flat base bullet nose down in a resized unprimed case. Chamber the round, making sure the bolt locks closed. Eject the cartridge. The length of this cartridge matches the length from the bolt face to the lands. Match this length to the length of your cartridge case from it's head to the line on the scored bullet, and adjust your bullet seater accordingly.