OAL of the brass should not affect sizing or seating, as already stated.
I agree with others here that more reading and learning about the nuances of handloading are worthwhile.
Keep in mind the recommendations from the manufacturer to adjust the die into the shell holder/plate and then a 1/8 turn tighter is a generic setting. It is a good idea to source a chamber gauge (good for an auto loader - especially if you load for more than one) or as I believe Stubblejumper suggested, get yourself a comparator to measure finished round datum to compare with your chamber (I have mixed feelings on this one - for a precision bolt gun that you tailor loads for, absolutely. For a semi auto? Maybe my Knight's Armament SR-25, but I wouldn't do it for any of my .223 guns, even the precision ARs.) -that is just me though.
If you want to dabble with cooking up precision ammo for the fun of it, there are all sorts of cool loading gadgetry and processes you can get or use to help analyze, measure, uniform or otherwise seemingly correct your ammo. Stand back and look at it all with some subjectivity (do some testing for yourself). There is stuff guys do to make better ammo, and then there is stuff that is done that 'might' count towards better ammo, and then there is stuff still that might not matter one bit. once you are there those F'ers are a really good source of info.
I clean the lube from rifle, but not pistol. Not sure if it matters at all. I've heard that lube can contaminate primers (I suppose if there is oodles of it), but I do not know how anactotal that is. Lube can get annoying real fast if you shoot in dusty or dirty conditions as well.