You don't have a headspace or primer issue. You have a load issue. You're 35 or 36 grains of H4895 is too far under the minimum load. It's unsafe as well. Below minimum loads can be as dangerous as above max loads. Causes weird pressures where the powder detonates instead of burning. Use the correct loads and do not load below minimum.
If you want a lighter load, use a 150 grain match bullet.
Headspace issues will have more than just flattened primers anyway. You having any extraction problems? Primers backing out? (That leftmost case's primer looks high though, but that may be due to not removing the crimp. High primers tend to cause slam fires too.) Stretched cases?
Headspace is only checked using headspace gauges. Bits of tape, etc tell you nothing.
I think you might be right. I tried a 168 gr A-max and the pressure signs went away at 37 grains, bullet was going around 2450 fps. My target is 2,500 fps, so I'll do the next step to get there later this week - but the primers stopped backing out at this level and when they don't back out they don't flatten, so you and the gentleman who said insufficiency pressure might be preventing the primer from being held in properly probably solved it. I will post pictures of the completed load's primers when done - thanks!




















































