A headspace gauge for a rimless cartridge will gauge the distance from the bolt face to a datum line on the shoulder angle. In the case of the 6mm BR (Norma), for instance, that datum line is the line at which the shoulder angle measures .3750" in diameter. This measurement (minimum) is 1.4953". Now, one could make a gauge with a contact diameter of .3750 and a length of 1.4953" and that would work fine, but with a sharp edge, it would be susceptible to wear or damage. So it is, manufacturers of reamers and gauges grind the contact area at the appropriate shoulder angle. This works out great; providing the gauge and the reamer both possess precisely the same angle. If the angles do not coincide, the gauge will contact somewhere other than the specified datum line, and the distance will be wrong. Now, this difference is likely to be miniscule, but it is different, nonetheless. This is why some will say you should have reamers and gauges from the same manufacturer. I guess they are assuming the reamers and gauges are ground on the same machine, with the same set-up, by the same operator; probably not.
I don't like to even have a no-go gauge in the shop. I can measure headspace with a go gauge and shims. If I was going to set up a barrel with a nut, I would use a "go" gauge and a layer of Scotch tape.