For what it's worth, I started off planing on picking up a Norc 1911, then decided to go quality over price. I went down to Wholesale sports and handled a Beretta 96 with rubber grips, Ruger P89, and Glock 17. The Beretta was comfortable but didn't really appeal to me, the Ruger was way to clunky, though cheap, and the Glock felt like a toy that would break if I just looked at it. Then I decided on a Hi-Power, which I also handled at Wholesale, for it's small grip (I have smallish hands) but changed my mind after experiencing hammer bite problems on an Inglis model I tried. I also had a chance to shoot a P89 and realized that even though it was cheap, it just wasn't for me. I've also had a go with a 1911 and liked the small grip and may consider a 1911 in 9mm (not norc). I handled a CZ-75 and found the trigger too far forward for comfort. I shot a Glock 22 last year, and don't really remember it well, but could recall that even though it was the first handgun I'd shot in 5 or so years it was comfortable. Recently, I had a chance to manhandle someone's USP tactical and a Para-Ordnance 1911 in .40. I like the USP's paddle type mag release but it's pricey.
So now, after several months, I've narrowed it down to a USP, Glock, or perhaps an XD-9 (if I get to try one out of course). If you have your heart set on one gun, try it out first. It seems like you do not, so take your time and see what you like. The money may be burning a whole in your pocket but at least you'll know that what you end up with you'll like.