I took some time with Quickload, and a bullet stability program.
If you use a 1:14 twist rifle, and set the velocity at 3500fps.
The stability of a Hornady 55gn v-max is ~0.95, Optimum is 1.3-1.5 and minimum is 1.0. Stability worsens as it gets colder, so I imagine that at this time of year those 55gn v-max bullets will never shoot very well in a 1:14 twist rifle.
The Hornady 45gn vmax bullets are much shorter (0.5 inch vs 0.813) and at the same velocity the stability is excellent (6.0) it is no wonder these shoot well in your rifle. You can play with powder and seating depth, but it is unlikely these bullets will every shoot very well.
If you use SMK 55gn bullets instead (length 0.715) you will get excellent results with a stability factor of 1.6, this is optimum.
I have had similar problems in my .223 using 75gn Amax bullets, my rifle is a 1:9 twist and it will not stabalize the longer 75gn Amax bullets. However if I use the shorter, SMK 77gn bullets I get great results.
I spent 2 months learning that I could not shoot the 75gn amax bullets, I tried mutiple powder, primer and seating conditions. I wish I had calcluated the stability factor first, it would have saved me a lot of wasted range time.
My 2 cents worth..
Good Luck!