I don't have that problem with wives. I just go ahead and buy things, and if they don't like it, too bad. Of course, I can say that because at the present, I don't have one. If you have a girlfriend, they usually don't put up too much fuss.......that is, until they become a wife......then you have a problem.
As far as Trade-Ex is concerned, I have found that their description is quite accurate, and if I see something I might like, then a quick e-mail holds it for me. On the other hand, if anyone within 100 km. of where I live happens to order a rifle from Trade-Ex, I think Anthony asks them if they know me, as I seem to have accumulated more than a few from Trade-Ex.
I have seen something that is underpriced at a gun show, put it down thinking that I should see what else is there, gone down about three tables, and re-thought about it. When I turned around to go back, sure enough, there went the underpriced rifle off with someone else. Now, when I find something like that, I just buy it.
On the lighter side, you might get yourself a Labrador Retriever. When you bring it home, you can tell your wife that "it loves you, it wants to go hunting with you, it doesn't talk back, it does what you tell it to, it lays on the bed to keep you warm at night, and it already has a fur coat." Of course, you might also ask your wife how well she can swim with a duck in her mouth.
The dog house that comes with the Labrador Retriever can be quite comfortable at times, and real men don't mind sleeping on the chesterfield. It's like camping out!
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