Reality is what you make of it b6ddie.
The fact is - anyone being 'realistic' KNEW there was no way that the ###s would EVER be tolerated in our society, and DEFINATLY not be allowed to marry!!
in 1965 that is. When it was still illegal to be ###.
Any "Reasonable" woman could have told you they'd never get the right to vote in a man's world.
"Reasonable" natives everywhere knew they were going to get screwed, and fighting for thier rights was a lost cause.
Lets face it - if you're willing to concede that the public CANNOT be taught to think different, you are in fact conceding defeat. And honestly, you need to think about whether or not you feel comfortable with that.
The 'reality' in canada is that it may take a bit of time, but as long as we never give up and never admit defeat, we CAN in fact make it happen. It was less than 25 years ago we HAD ATC's issued to people fairly regular.
Never let 'em beat you bud - always believe you can change things.