Well I'm going to throw a wrench into the works here and say I actually like recoil, bring it on, the more the better. I have shot a sub 1" group off bags with my iron sighted 470NE, 2 lefts and 2 rights with 500 gns @ 2160 fps @ 50 mtrs. I have owned and shot extensively a 450 Ackley, 500 gns @ 2550 fps, several 458s, 3 416 Rigbys, a 416 Taylor, 45-110 Sharps, many 375 H&Hs, 375 Wby, 50 BMG, 9.3X300 WM....286 Parts @ 2967 fps, 340 Wby. I have shot but not owned many even bigger rifles like 500/465, 577 and 500 NE a 378 Wby and 460 Wby, a couple 500 wildcats based on a 577 rimless case, a 505 Gibbs, 8 bore Rodda and the best/worst of all was a 4 bore double cartridge rifle. I have never experienced any negative side effects other than headache from shooting these guns and I just had my eyes completely checked and there is absolutely no damage to them. The key is to learn how to shoot heavies and they will never bruise you or hurt you, it is a learned skill and rifle fit is tantamount. I'm lucky where the most common dimensions fit me to a tee.
Boomer shoots big ugly recoiling SOBs all the time and he isn't the least bit afraid of them, and he likes them short barreled and light. Of course you have to meet Boomer and then you'd understand.......LOL, no offence Mike.
Shooting the heavies is an aquired art, but it makes shooting the tinys so easy after it is ridiculous.