Got a few lbs of IMR 4198 at a bargain basement price (I’m weak). My Speer # 12 book says it’s good for reduced loads as well as 45-70 (and the smaller calibres too). So far as I can see, there’s enough experience around - in this forum - to encourage you to develop a low recoil load “for the kids”. For my part, I shoot casts so I’ll develop some plinking loads and have some fun.