I'll toss in my 2 cents, having several barrels changed out and a few on order for replacement.
A rifle that shoots at 2400 feet/sec will last many many times longer than a barrel that shoots bullets at 3500feet/sec. Rifles such as 22-250, .257 Roberts, rip out down range at some 3700 feet/sec and are good for about 2000 rounds. An SKS will toss round balls for 10,000 rounds and keep on ticking. Its my opinion that the high rate of velocity is one of the largest factors of burning out a barrel.
Having that said, now you can look at rifles that can land on both sides of the fence; a .223win can fire 50gr or 55 gr bullets in the mid 3500fps speeds, or it can shoot 75gr boat tails slower than 2800fps. One will burn your barrel faster than the other. Make your choice.
Thanks for the info guys. I often wonder about this also and the explanations are varied.
Using your above analogy fiddler, does a bull/heavy barrel or stainless make that much of a difference in burning out?