Bruce, I'm sure you write from experience, but isn't the large pistol primer a touch shorter in over all height and that's why you shouldn't use rifle primers in large pistol cases? I was led to understand that to seat LR primers in a LP case you may need to crush the primer a tad or leave it a few thou proud of the case. Not true?
Your theory is certainly correct and I should have mentioned that.
In practice, I have used any primer, as I have mentioned. In fact, I shot 44 magnum, rifle and revolvers, for years, before I knew there was any difference in physical size, between rifle and pistol primers!
I normally seat all primers on my heavy duty press. I do it because I have it down perfectly as to how much pressure is required to push the primer in, and know exactly when the primer pocket is too loose. However, I always give it a firm push at the end, to make sure it seated properly and I guess that takes care of the longer primer going full in.
I know I once tried the Lee hand seating press, but didn't like it, because I didn't feel I had good enough control on judging primer pocket size with them. I also think the little Lee seating press may not have pushed the longer primers full in, because I remember primers that were not seated flush, but I didn't know then, that they may have been longer primers.
I have always had two types of bullet molds for the 44 mag, the bullets all weigh about 250 grains, but most are flat base, while some may be gas check.
At any given time if you look at my storage area of 44 mag cartridges, you will see about four or five, 50 shell size boxes, either full of loaded shells, or the boxes may be only partly full. Each box will be ticketed with the amount and type of powder used and whether the bullets are gas check or flat base, but that will be the only marking on the box, so I have no idea what primers are used in them, pistol standard or magnum, or rifle standard or magnum.
And every load I make will be suitable for either rifle or pistol.
Over time I have chronographed both pistol and rifle, of various calibres, to see if I could see any difference in what primer was used. With identical loads, except for the primer, I have never seen any difference in velocity greater than the half of one percent that was the allowable tolerance of the chronograph, whether the primers were standard or magnum, or pistol, (in applicable calibres.)