I don't mess around with trying to pull the retaining pin that sticks out the bottom.
I simply use an appropriate punch and drive the connector pin out, which shears the retaining pin. Very easy to do, just drive it from the left side, out the right.
You will need to reduce the diameter of the US pin by chucking up the pin in a drill or lathe. A hand drill will do, chuck 1/8th of one end.
Use 80 grit sandpaper on a hard object like a file and work the pin evenly as you spin it. Finish the job with a stone or emory cloth to polish. Reblue with cold blue and install.