The indent in the primer is normal and is unavoidable. It is good measure to make sure you are using ammo that is compatible with the rifle, but most factory 150g 308 stuff will be OK.
When I reload, I use CCI 200's only cause I know they have never given me problems and I'm not going to risk trying others. I can't get mil-spec primers locally.
I've cycled all sorts of silly things thru my M1A with no problems.
p.s. any truth in the statement that going above 150 grains in a m14 is a bad idea?
YES, on paper.
Factory 180g rounds often use much slower burning powders so they can achieve similar velocity and point of zero as their 150g counterparts.
This slower powder can overdrive your gas system and damage the rifle, so it is not recommended.
IF you're shooting factory, use 168g max. 168g rounds are often Match rounds made to a standard that has the M1A in mind.
180g factory is made expecting that it's likely to be used as a hunting round out of a generic rifle, most likely Bolt Action. If you have a recoil buffer you could probably get away with it, but I'm not interested in trying.
150g does not need any special slow burning powder to achieve it's spec performance.
On a side note, I shoot 180g out of my M1A almost exclusively, but they are reloads using a powder within the spec burn rate for the rifle.