Perfect. Now I need to find a bolt guide and I have 2 good bolts.
Is there a way to measure the 2 heads and see whats different ? Like is the actual head itself different size or style ? I am reading online trying to understand this topic more but can I not take a micrometer and take critical measurements of the 2 heads to compare?
So you seem to be lacking a understanding of what determines headspacing.
Headspacing is determined by a couple factors. Basically what you are measuring is the distance between the bolt face and the cut chamber. In the case of a rimmed cartridge it is usually spaced off the rim, which generally means looser tolerances or in the case of a rimless cartridge generally the shoulder of the case.
Since the Mosin Nagant is a rimmed cartridge we shall focus on that. Now there is several factors that come into play, the cut of your chamber, the location your bolt face is in the locked position, where the locked position is in regards to the bolt lugs, and the barrel location.
There are several ways to adjust headspace. The easiest one is changing the bolt head. Depending on where the bolt head locks up and how far forward the face of the bolt head is from the locking lugs, shall adjust the distance between the bolt face and the rim of the cartridge. This shall increase or decrease your headspace accordingly.
Otherways to change your head space are re-cutting the chamber. Re-cutting the chamber and turning a extra thread on the barrel and removing a thread off it. Adjusting the locking recesses on the receiver or barrel (no one does this as it is non-sensical). Adjusting the locking points on the bolt head, and removing material or adding material to the bolt face (these all require re-heat treating and again basically no one does it as it is non-sensical). As you can see by these options the easiest way is to simply change the bolt heads until they work with the gauges.
There is several parts you would have to measure to accurately compare bolt heads, and frankly you can't just measure them with a micrometer. Basically the overall length of the bolt head doesn't really matter for headspace, the distance between the locking lugs and bolt face does. Unlike something like a Lee Enfield which you can simply measure the length of the bolt head (provided you know the measurement required), it doesn't work with a Mosin bolt head due to the recessed face and the locking lugs being on the bolt head as opposed to a Lee Enfield having them on the bolt body.
If your around the Sault Ste. Marie area you can use my set of gauges.