That is because all of your seating dies are roll crimp seaters. Not every die works this way. Lee dead length seating dies do not crimp and are adjusted to firmly contact the shellholder. They will not cause a bulge in the neck. Forster BR seating dies are another example. There are many others. However the OP mentioned a lot that is being needlessly addressed like shoulder bumping and over crimping. Rounds are not being crimped and brass chambers freely after sizing. Resistance occurs after bullet seating. With 1 thou neck tension and no crimp there wouldn't be much resistance from jamming the bullet. I believe Chinbullco has the real questio to be answered: are case necks too thick?
It's very easy to prove whether the seating die is contacting the shoulder or not. If he places a fired case in the shellholder and drops the press handle down all the way and then threads the seating die into the the press it should bottom out on the shellholder before he feels any resistance. If there is any gap at all between the seating die and shell holder, and he feels resistance as he threads the die into the press, then the die is touching the case shoulder.


















































