I've just started to reload and I reloaded some dummy rounds (9mm & 40S&W).The 9mm bullets ended up being seated way too deep and the 40S&W bullet ended up not being seated enough. I'm using the Lee Challenger Press with Lee carbide dies. What am I doing wrong? Do I have to play around with both bullet seating dies until I get it just perfect? The instructions that came with the Lee Anniversary Kit and Die sets don't help at all. It says to tighten the die enough so it touches the cartridge holder, and then spin it off three turns; well that didn't work.