First off you do NOT need a Geissele reaction rod or the Brownells to assembly an upper
I have used the clam shell type, the DPMS and the PRI upper receiver block ( my favorite BTW )
Some billet uppers like like the Vltor do not clamp perfectly but the reality is if it doesn't move you are GTG . I have don't lots of Vltors / Sun Devil etc billets
First off you need far more torque to shear your index pin and damage the receiver than the max barrel nut an certainly reasonable flash hider torque . This is why you don't "need" a reaction rod on an assembly
Interesting test on trying to make a Vltor front sight slip . See link below about 3/4 way down
http:// ww.militarymorons.com/weapons/ar.optics2.html
They have to exceed 100ft lbs
So back to "needing a reaction rod" . Again, completely unnecessary for assembly ( other than barrel extension ) but on rare case I had to resort to it
The max torque of barrel nut is 80ft lbs...having said that I have rarely seen the need to go that high ( min is 30 and it should index properly way before 80)
Only once did I have to use another barrel nut to get index
I highly doubt the damage you experience was caused by improper clamshell . Even if you use the excellent PRI block (grabs the flat top or the takdown holes ) you would have still sheared your index pin
Not to insult anyone here but most people have no idea how much torque they are capable off on a nut or bolt !
I use a PRI barrel nut wrench and the DD ( I do lots off DD foreneds ) which is easy to use with a torque wrench.
It always surprises me how little effort it takes to pull 60 to 70ft lbs on a wrench
Hell, I've seen my 100lb sister snap a wheel stud off !
If you can't find someone to help you in Calgary , if you mail upper to me I can assemble for you
My Reaction Rod Adventures
If I need in excess of even 30 lbs to index flash hider I play with shim or crush washer . I have had the rare one that comes so close to indexing I exceed 30 but certainly nowhere near the 100ft lbs to shear the index pin
Unfortunately some yahoos that don't get this . My most recent need of the reaction rod was a used BCM upper I was installing a DD RIS handguard for ( need to remove flash hider )
Long story short, I could not believe how much torque it took ( should have know from the evidence of damaged wrench flats ) .
Tried receiver block first and made me feel uneasy when it took over 60 ft lbs and still didn't budge . Tried barrel vise right by the flash hider and even the best Brownells barrel vise was slipping
IT took two of us using BOTH the reaction rod ( one guy putting wrench to it to counteract my torque , AND a barrel vise on the barrel to finally break it free with a satisfying squeak
Turns out the guy Rocksetted the crap out of it too !