Question I am asking is in what manner would he involve the child to get his way ? abuse or threat of abuse ? You will have to be specific. Lots of people are trying to give you some pointers but vague questions can lead you to a dangerous path or put the child in harms way as you put since the man is aggressive. I would call family services if child is in harms way. Even what you said "associate with him? I don't, I tolerated him up to a point, I don't any longer, but I may be forced to do so again" is very contradicting. What I am interpreting is "I don't yet I do but I don't but may force to" I am sorry to say that your stories are very contradicting in nature. Family already said to report him, why are you hesitating ? yes , of course, he would use the child but you primary concern is the child's safety.
** EDIT : "He comes over to my house with his new rifle, he conveniently forgets to take it home with him, I lock it up after he leaves, I'm not stealing anything. This has already happen"... ok, I am at a lost... OP, you said that he is applying for his pal, but as the story goes, you mention that he brings his rifles to your place ...is this hypothetical ? LGR or NOT, he can't take his rifle with him without a valid PAL. So, did he had PAL before or he has PAL now ?
Wish you best of luck and seek appropriate authority or authorities as soon as possible.
** EDIT : "He comes over to my house with his new rifle, he conveniently forgets to take it home with him, I lock it up after he leaves, I'm not stealing anything. This has already happen"... ok, I am at a lost... OP, you said that he is applying for his pal, but as the story goes, you mention that he brings his rifles to your place ...is this hypothetical ? LGR or NOT, he can't take his rifle with him without a valid PAL. So, did he had PAL before or he has PAL now ?
Wish you best of luck and seek appropriate authority or authorities as soon as possible.
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