I buy primers 10,000 at a time. I have used Wolf, Tula, CCI, Federal, Norma, Winchester, RWS, Kynock, Vihtavouri, S&B, Fiocchi and Remington.
Vihtavouri were a magnitude hotter than anything else.
RWS was the mildest.
Fiocchi is the cheapest, followed by S & B.
I once had to switch from Federal match to Winchester Standard because of difficulty in finding 40,000 primers of the same lot#. We dropped the 4895 powder charge by 1/10 gn. to compensate for a 25 fps increase in velocity. ES and SD were about the same. 4895 is easy to ignite.
I am not going to start a pissing contest here about "best" primers.
If Winchester was not having a QC problem, their Standard primer would be a good all purpose primer. I suspect the Remington would be similar.
I have used a lot of the cheap primers (Russian) S&B and Fiocchi and found them 100% reliable.
I have a project coming up in the spring to load 4000 rounds of match 223 ammo. I will use the CCI magnum primer because I will use a ball powder. I have had issues making 223 with ball powder before that only a bullet crimp and magnum primer would solve.
I use a hand primer for most applications, and find that the CCI primers feed better than the cheap primers. That is the only real difference I have found between the cheap and expensive primers.
However: The Federal primers are special. They use a different, and more sensitive priming compound than the other brands. One of my pistols gets 50% misfires, or more, with all primers except Federal. Federal works 100%.
If you have a striker-fired pistol that gets the occasional misfire, Federal primers will solve the problem.