Thank you everyone for the advice. She currently shoots a Mossberg Maverick 88 Youth 20g pump action and doesnt have any troubles. Her main issue is with the weight of the shotgun as it tends to tip her forward and put her off balance. She was more afraid of the recoil than anything. She managed to get a few shots off with my Berterra A400 Xtreme Unico before the weight started tipping her forward too much to attempt any more and was surprised at how little recoil she felt. She can not manage my O/U at all.