msg.drew, at this point, there is only one way to find out what works for you. Just load up and go shoot. Tweak as needed.
Having shot indoors for many years, I didn't appreciate when the magnum HG showed up and shook the walls. But that might just be me.
I keep my loads at a low enough level to not offend those next to me. Afterall, we are all trying to have a nice day.
Jerry