Go with lighter bullets with a quick powder such as Benchmark or Varget; this will reduce recoil for sure.
You can try going to a slower buring powder as well, or you can use less of the standard powders.
With luck you'll retain accuracy, but loads wilth poor load density may not perform as well.
Also, do be careful of not going too light with the powder charge, particulalry slow burning powders; this can actually result in catastrophic failure believe it or not, in a phenomenon known as "secondary explosive effect"