I've worked with some 39/357's with not normal throat and groove dimensions. I've also loaded 38 LC, which is close, but not the same as 38 S&W.
I'm assuming you're after an accurate load for plinking, and not a game or hunting load. A bit hard to get, but still around are Hollow Base wadcutter bullets for the 38 Special. These have been loaded in the 38 LC to shoot in .375" groove guns. They will seal at 375, and at 364 they should be good. I would use Trail Boss as it gives a good "bump" to lead bullets and yet is still low velocity. IOW, good pressure, low velocity.
Alternately any swaged soft lead bullet like the ones Speer makes are good. The Speer 158 LRN # 4648 would have the proper "look" if that's an issue with you.
I don't think any hard cast bullet will shoot without leading. However a coated (Hi-Tek) lead bullet may work. This coating is real forgiving, although your numbers are about as bad as I can see working without leading.
Again, Trail Boss to give the bullet a good "kick" and let it slide down the barrel at a low(ish) velocity.
IMHO, opening up the throats to groove diameter is not something I'd consider, unless you have some custom mold made to drop 365 bullets, OR perhaps a mold for the Makarov. But with a 365(ish) bullet, you may not be able to chamber the ammo.
In conclusion, that 001 over groove, or at throat diameter is a guideline, for normal revolvers where the throats are larger than the groove diameter, AND those diameters are close to each other. If they are not close the "guideline" is for a diameter in the middle. When groove diameter exceeds throat diameter by a substantial amount, I think there are no guidelines. Obviously having a bullet smaller than your throats is not what you want, and will only make leading worse, again IMHO. I'm also assuming you don't want to do any costly smithing, so I'd look into the swaged soft lead HBWC first. Read up on these, they do not like to be loaded hot, the skirts tend to fail.
In 44 Mag I've used a Speer # 4661 SWC swaged bullet with a bevel (concave) base with good success, with Trail Boss. And I tried lots of other powders, not worked as well for this application.
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