Hey guys this is my first post on this site, and I was wondering what the general consensus for a good beginner deer rifle for my lady friend would be. My brother has the Youth Savage axis .243 so I'm not looking for that. She can shoot my Tikka t3 superlight .270 win but does complain it kicks to hard, so what might be a happy medium? Cheers.
Funny thing this "wife's first rifle" around my house...her and I did our courses together and decided it would be a great way to spend some extra time together.

Soooo soon after we got our PALS it was our anniversary, I thought how nice would it be if I bought "us" a rifle

I looked at lots, at first I almost bought us (her) an SKS, but ended up settling on a great 'little' gun called an M305 in an Archangel stock! .....here we can shorten the story up and just say I guess I probably played that whole hand wrong right from the first card because well now "it" was going to have to be "my" gun, darn!
So a few months later we were going to shoot some whatever off the boat maybe on our out of province vacation, so I bought "us" another gun

....this time wasn't AS bad because she thought the MPA-TS I brought home was scary but kind of cool...however at this point I am still not winning....a short time (weeks) later my Buddy had this beauty of a Rem 7600 in .270 for a great deal! I thought what the hell, it was her birthday....I tried again and although she thought it looked classy, once she seen me shoot that old mule....she wanted no part of it. Still not winning...add that one to the other fails.
Then I found "us" another Norcinstine M14 that was clearly a way better unit then "OUR" M305 and how much farther ahead "we" would be if I made a deal with 'this guy' and then sold "our" M305....won that one, got the M14 but Still not winning the card game because this one was WAY too heavy for her (for a bench gun). I had to agree, and that one had to go over there in the pile with the others...full of fail.
A few months go by, I get an old ithica leaver action .22 from her uncle. I do a refinish job on it and she falls in love with it, found it! Her new gun! Winning!...then my 10 year old daughter falls in love with it as well....Moms cut...Daughter wins out and now has her first rifle. A family hand me down from her great uncle!
Now I give up. No more buying guns for "us" or "her"....I buy myself a nice old Russian SKS refurb for a goto shooter for "me" and put it in an ATI stock with a nice rubber grip....it's a blast to shoot... Love it!
My wife decides she wants to come to the range with me a few weeks back, she's seen this "bubba" but not outside... says it looks scary, tries it.....LOVES IT! And CLAIMS it for herself! So much for a "me" gun I say! All of this is crazy I say! Now that the "Daughter", the "Her" and the "us" have all be thought of first, the only solution is now that she is temporarily happy and has something she likes, is to start back at square one and find that "me" rifle. Wow...such effort.
Moral of the story....if your new at the game and are having a hard time convincing the wife that you NEED a huge collection of a wide array of firearms for no apparent reason (weather you can afford them or not!) and she is just not seeing the light as she should ...start by buying "her" a new gun...any gun...but not your first choice! Never your first choice! And go up from there. And always stand by her to let her know that you won't ever stop in your quest for her happiness until she is satisfied and beyond! And that you would buy many guns until you get it right....just for her....because you love her....and the kids.
Use this method and buy a bigger safe!
