I'd give Redding a call and explain what's happening. You might have an undersize expander ball. It's a stretch, but possible. They should be able to tell you what the ball size is supposed to be.
Unless the brass is crazy hard and springy, the expander ball should return the inside of the neck to the proper dimension after the die resizes it.
Do you have any unfired Lapua brass to get some comparison measurements on neck thickness?
A tight chamber might account for the bullet not sliding into a fired case, but a FL die should bring the case back to standard dimensions, at least where the neck inside diameter is concerned.
It's a different cartridge, but I have a 6.5 Creedmoor RCBS FL die, I can measure the dia of the expander ball if you like. I think the 6.5 x 55 also uses a .264" bullet?
This is going to sound like an idiot suggestion, but check the diameter of the bullets you loaded. It's possible the wrong ones got put in the box at the factory. Which bullet are you using?