Guys over-torque rings to keep the scope from skidding from recoil. The best way that I've found to ensure that the scope never skids is to put a drop of lock-tite in the bottom half of each ring - not on screws - set the scope down into that tiny bit of locktite, and after it sets, it will never move. It dries clear - and when you take one apart years later, the little film of locktite comes off really easily with a fingernail. There may be a time to lap-bed rings, but this tiny dot of locktite (wood glue might work too) makes a perfect bed to lay a scope into. I put it together and then finish tightening the next day, but that delay may not be necessary.
As for torquing... if there is one screw on each side of the scope, they are equalized already - and if there are two or three screws on each side of the ring, it is hardly necessary to buck them down to maximum torque - and doing so certainly risks egging your scope. Strangely, when a guy uses a torque wrench, he begins to trust the wrench, and cannot even feel that the bit is beginning to slip in the screw head, or the screw is beginning to tear out threads because it is too short - or he may not pay attention to the type of screw head - slot, Phillips, Torx or Allen - and so, may over-stress the bit, the screw head or screw threads or ring threads or egg the scope - all for the want of the sense of the bare hand on a well-fitted driver. Using a torque wrench is not bad, but it does not change a man into a technician - use it for a tool, not for a stage prop - if you begin to feel the glow of I'm-The-Man, you are using it wrong.
Keep the screws threaded to equal depth on each side - it not only looks better, but the screws each get the same amount of thread to hold onto. If you have a bad screw - get new ones - now - don't cringe and ignore it - ammo is not cheap, and hunting trip memories are good or bad, depending on those screws. Depend on luck to bring the deer out on the right side of that tree - not to hold your scope straight.
Don't booger up the screw heads - how often have you seen a guy do some wild shots and then pull out his leatherman to check his scope screws - pull your scope off where you have tools, and put it back together properly the night before - and it only takes three shots to have it lined up again. It is not by shooting that you check the security of your scope mounting - when you get to the range, the only question might be about a few clicks this way or that to reset a fresh-mounted scope - and when you get to the bush, that gun should be so certainly assembled that the only thing to question is your own skills.
I attach my sling to my scope so it hangs right-side up when I walk - and have absolute confidence in every gun in the safe - nothing has ever moved - as I write this, I can see a deer out the window 120 yards, and would likely be out 200 before I could be lined up, but I could depend on any of my guns to put a bullet exactly as it was sighted last year or five years ago - this is the type of confidence that you want to have - not because "that should be good enough", but because it is right.
Now, I have written this out of order, so it may take a bit longer to read it - and you might have already dismissed what I began with - but if you only read the first two sentences and believed them, your life will be better - I'm not the Man, but I'd like to be a friend of his.