Excellent post, Gerald.
Just some comments on the original post. Flattening of primers is not considered a very good indicator of pressure in the cartridge. One person may call a primer overly flat, while another may say it is normal, while a third may say it looks to him/her like a lighter load. Also, several have pointed out that primers vary a lot and a load that flattens brand A, may look normal with brand B.
If the bolt is easy to open, with no extra pressure felt to start the case out, you likely have a normal, or under normal pressure load. A modern, meaning any rifle made after WW One, bolt action rifle has a lot of lea way safety. This is not to say that over loading is not dangerous, but if the bolt is not sticking on loads, another grain or so of powder is not going to, "blow it up in my face."
I will bet that most of us who have been reloading for a time, have at some time, had to bang the bolt handle to get an empty case free of the chamber. Heck, I have even had to use a chunk of 2x4 with a very solid whump, to break the bolt free on a brand new magnum rifle with a Norma factory load. Cleaning of the chamber, to allow the brass a better surface for gripping the chamber walls, solved the problem.
And speaking of flattened primers, I still have a the empty from a Norma factory load 7 x 61 from the 1960s, fired at the time in a new Schultz and Larson rifle. That primer is flat-flat. Not an over load, just a factory loaded cartridge.