Riflechair,
Can you explain to me in a detailed, emotional sorta way how and why you would not open it up and....
- how often do you find yourself wondering what they are like inside
- what is the benefit to not opening it up for you
I am quite interested. I personally am very protective of my 'older relatives' and look after them like a doting parent, but this is not something I could see myself managing to do as I see the benefit of opening them to experience the whole thing quite enjoyable in an of itself.
So i'm stuck, tell us mere mortals what's it all about!