GGG,
Great thread, good questions, and confusing topic.
About Lawyerized loads...they aren't necessarily. If you're looking for max accuracy or you have a known "hot load" you re-work your load when using a different lot of powder or primers. There are many who believe that the powder used in a 20+yr old manual may not behave the exact same way as most of the powder produced last week(ie 20yr old batch of H4350 vs 1 month old H4350). Second: equipment has gotten better. Piezo measurements in PSI are replacing Copper Units(which was derived from measuring copper pellets crushed in a special action) this newer method has proved some old loads unsafe.
Options, you have many. One of which is not to get stuck on using a certain powder or primer. I've moved from keeping 2 types of powder on hand to 5. W748 is easy to meter, RL-15 keeps giving me great accuracy, RL-19 hasn't done much for me yet but I am moving to some heavier bullets, 4895 for lighter loads, and H414 for velocity. Why? Because when I switched bullets and bought a brand new manual H414 gave top velocities in their testing for 7-08 so rather than move past the book into Voodoo with RL-15 I tried H414 which gave book or better velocity with book loads. In other words there aren't many reasons to move past book values(not saying I haven't done it, pet loads with 1 rifle are over) if your not happy with your results at book max try a different powder or primer.
I use my chrony for ladder testing and all load development, it has shown me some things about my loads and loadings and even done the proverbial drop off in gains. I also develop loads the way Jerry outlines on his website and using a chrony has saved me lots of bullets and powder by knowing there's no reason to fire all those rounds that are way slower than my goal yet still do a diligent work up.
I have friends that require a little reading between the lines and with random info on the internet it can be hard to do. You don't know for certain if the 48gr guy is being 100% truthful vs 100%BS...a troll. I look for details and info that is useable and agrees with accepted principles.
Stay safe = keep shooting
Have fun,
Willy