When I am ready to FL size the case, I dip and roll the neck in powdered graphite [An old pill container ¾ full of #8 shot plus about
a tablespoon of powdered graphite] I then gently wipe off the lube on the outside of the neck, leaving the inside lubed.
The body I usually lube with Imperial sizing wax. A pass through the die, clean off the lube, ready to go.
The nice thing about the powdered graphite is: No lube dents on the shoulder of the case, even if you leave a bit on the outside.
I have never damaged a neck in any way using this method. I avoid the ugly lube dents on the shoulders, and the expander button
pulls through the sized neck without undue force being needed. Dave.