OP, I generally work up in stages. If there is a large difference between min and max loads (10-15gns), then I will do the initial loads by 1gn. Then I will work up my most promising loads by .5gn. That really dials in the "nodes". I will then, depending on the application, rework using .2gn increments. Most of my best groups are at or above max listed pressures but I have done this for years. As H4831 has stated, you need to play safe until you can determine pressure signs accurately. Often what looks like a flattened primer can be missed. You usually have time to study your cases when you are working up a load. Get to know your rifle and how cases should look before pressure builds to dangerous levels.
You can take this advice for what it is worth, but when an credible reloader says something, you may want to heed that, and H4831 is just that. Even if we do argue on occasion...