Then you haven't tried a lot of pistols. I picked up the CZ-75 and it felt like a glove - I didn't need to shoot it to know it was a great gun for me.
I picked up a Beretta (don't remember which model) and knew equally well that I hated it.
I tried the NP22, and liked it; no matter how many times I'd practice with the HK or the P99 the screwed up mag release just doesn't work with my fingers.
Hate the fat Taurus grip, hate the huge HK frame. Can't stand either the 1911 or the Glock grip angle. The K100 fits great....
The list goes on... I don't understand why anyone would even suggest that it's ok to get a gun blind, and then hope that you, eventually, force yourself to love it, rather than just trying to find something that feels good from the start. It worked for you? Great! The opposite might be the case for the next guy, and if someone is trying to get his/her first gun, let it be something that's remembered fondly, not as an uncomfortable piece of metal which (s)he learned to deal with, over time.