The Browning High Power has a reputation for almost being the universal pistol as it can be fitted to many with small hands.
As has been stated, thinner grips do not necessarily make a gun easier to grip and shoot.
Some women have quite small hands with very petite finger length.
I strongly recommend going to a range with a variety of rental guns.
The most important aspect is that the gun fits the shooters hand. Don't trap her into calibre and action choices which may be unrealistic.
Don't dismiss revolvers, S&W J frames and Ruger SP101 are now available in 357/38special as restricted and can have fitted grips far smaller than most autos.
not fancy but zastava tt33 in 9mm is as small as they come
It's not a 9mm but a browning 1911-22 at 7/8ths size is a fantastic pistol for small hands. And cheap cheap cheap to shoot.
consider the colt competition in 9mm, the grip is a little better than most, if you want something lighter maybe a colt commander in 9mm


I'm planning on surprising my wife with a 9mm. Her hands are average sized for a woman, smaller than mine, and I have smaller hands, size 9-10 ish.
I have a single stack 1911 in 45acp. She doesn't hate it. It has the standard grips on it, not sure if a guy can get skinnier ones.
Is the 9mm 1911 any skinnier than the 45acp? How does a CZ 75/85 compare? What about a Sig 228 with skinnier grips? I haven't seen (but haven't looked, really) for a 9mm commander sized 1911, do they exist?
Before someone tells me to go try them out, remember, its a surprise. Also, we aren't fan of the polymer firearms, so please don't recommend anything like that. Just a personal preference of ours.
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