Well this went places, as most bear defence internet threads do. Haven't read all the stuff since so I'm likely missing some of the messages.
I did however catch somebody in shock and disbelief we (presume directed at me, though I have sons, not daughters) didn't shoot a bear with our kids in kid carriers that we walked into point blank. With some pretty serious amusement I must explain to those who haven't figured it out already that it takes longer to unshoulder and chamber a round, and shoot, than to just move on. The gun came off the shoulder and was being cycled immediately, but first and foremost we were moving away. Once the distance had spread and the gun was ready there was zero point in killing the bear, he was as surprised as us and nothing had to die. I'm again embarrassed at my thread that not shooting the bear is now considered tantamount to bad parenting apparently. This is by no means the first or last bear we'll meet close hiking the backcountry. For those interested, we met this bear in Wilmore Wildnerness, they don't meet a ton of people, it isn't Jasper out there.
Second, much of what you'll get in any of these threads, and the bear that started the thread, are black bears. Since we've now diverged far from my initial sharing of the experience with the spray, we might as well continue to discuss the other bears. My bluff charge experience relates to an entirely different species. The CO's here consider the blacks to be more of a pain to deal with than Grizzlies, I'll say I trust Grizzlies more, and respect them more as well. I've seen one good bear awareness video out of all the ones I've been forced to watch at work, it was one the Yukon government collaborated on. In it, they purposely incited bluff charges with wild bears to film the segments and demonstrate actual behaviour instead of another fake video. A woman did the point work to boot, and was charged several times in the video, each time the bears stopping short. On one occasion it was even done on a sow with cubs. Balls. The reality and message in that is bears do not need to die every time they are encountered at close range, others seem to differ. Behaviour absolutely can be judged within reason, to think otherwise is to wilfully choose not to. If it could be cataloged, to make up a number, likely 99.99% of these encounters end with zero incidents, I bump into bears extremely often in my job as mentioned. Many others here do as well. I'm no expert, and I'm certainly not dead or playing a particularly dangerous brand of roulette either. I've hunted things scarier and far more dangerous than bears on another continent, and it puts things into perspective a good deal, you don't need to walk afraid of every bear you encounter. Just damn well pay attention and give respect.
Now, my biggest beef with the shoot first, ask questions later mentality is the effect on bear populations, and by bear populations, I should be clear I mean and am concerned with Grizzlies. Many Grizzlies were shot historically where I work, mentioned in passing tales by old grader operators and people who've been in the area a long time. "He was getting to close to camp" and all that. There used to be a lot more Grizzlies, too, now there are four judging by a couple years of watching the area from the air. Just last shift I was told a story about one of the old guys at another site mauled by a Grizzly they wounded and were following up, because they thought they saw him near the site too much. None of it had to happen, of that I'm certain. People are eager to shoot "problem" bears, or any bear considered to be looking at you sideways. To the fellow with private land and the chickens, I skimmed the post, and it's likely well justified, also a black bear and in no danger of population collapse. Grizzlies on the other hand do shoot out of areas far too easily, look at much of the south now.
Just as I'm concerned with conservation in hunting because I love the sport and the wilds, I'm even more concerned with unreported, unregulated "problem" shooting of bears, Grizzlies in particular, and the mentality threads like this propagate. It's my own thread and that's likely my fault, and my take on it is strong, but it worries me. These threads routinely turn into festivals of "No way I'M waiting to see what he's gonna do" and "Shoot first and live" advice and mentalities that filter into the bush as the general modus operandi. There is no question it is not necessary nearly as much as people seem to think, to boot. Expert I am not, but well bushed, absolutely. We all have our opinions, and I just sincerely hope those opposing mine don't end up killing Grizzlies in particular that didn't have it coming, because they didn't understand what was going on. I'm not out for hugging bears and suggesting we never get in their way or on their menu, I am absolutely against blind fear and well armed individuals mixing in the vicinity of the bears I worry about.