Trigun, do you own or ever handled the Sig P239?
Dammer, I assumed you were a woman because of your request for a "Female friendly beginner pistol"
If you want a Beretta, look into the Stoeger Cougar, low priced for a Beretta but the same quality and features. A Great pistol! One of my favorites:
http://www.gunsandammomag.com/ga_handguns/steoger8k_121106/
I think I paid about $380 US for it. It is great!
What don't you like about it, richardoldfield?
Yes, I also have a CZ75B and love it also.
It is not a "light" pistol though, being full size and all metal. Dammer, I think needs a polymer framed pistol.
I'd suggest going to a well stocked gun store and handling what they have....and ask them about what they recommend.
a new M&P is just the kind of polymer(not heavy) midsized weapon I was alluding to.