Turns out the bullet will not fall freely into a Lapua fired case neck. I checked with a fired Winchester and Hornady case as well with the same result. O.D. of the case necks are 0.254"
BINGO!!!! I know the internet has a big love for Lapua brass but in EVERY rifle I have helped sort out for wonky load tuning, the first thing I ask is what type of brass. Many times it is Lapua and in every instance when using Lapua, there is a lack of neck clearance.. ie bullet will not fall freely into a fired case neck.
http://www.saami.org/pubresources/cc_drawings/Rifle/223 Remington.pdf
According to SAAMI, the MAX neck diameter is 0.253". Your case is at 0.254" AND the bullet will not fall through.... you simply have no clearance to release the bullet properly. The case neck thickness is beyond SAAMI allowance. That is why you have groups showing tight central with wide flyers.
Measure the case necks with a tube micrometer and I bet they are over 12 thou... given your diameter, closer to 15 thou. This is way over thick. Now you need to compare to your chamber but given your fired case diameter, your chamber is likely around 0.255 to 256".... which is bang on SAAMI.
You will need to turn the case necks to 10 or 11 thou (which is the norm for this cal by the way).... this gives you 5 to 6 thou per side which is ideal in this type of application. Yes, bench rest rifles can run less clearance but you aren't babying your rifle like a BR shooter would so you can easily run out of clearance due to fouling.
After firing, a bullet will fall freely into this neck.
Also, with Lapua, better start thinking about annealing. The alloy is very hard and gets worst with use... now neck tension goes wonky and creates even more grief. This and lowered case volume are some of the reasons I stopped using Lapua when I competed with the 223. It simply isn't the best option.
Understand that brass flows and case neck thickness will grow with every firing... if you are going to shoot a case often, you better set up for outside neck turning and annealing if you want to keep things working at peak levels. You will also have to trim every 2 to 3 firings when running warmer loads.
THIS is the brass maintenance required for precision ammo. There is no way around it, except maybe never shooting a case more then 4 times.
Turn your necks, bedding, sand bags, and rework your loads... I bet you find you have a very good shooting rifle.
As to a good scale, the entry level is the Gempro 250. It will weigh to 0.02gr which is important for 223 loading. It will drift and is very sensitive to power supply BUT it is way less money then the scales most competition shooters use. As long as you keep an eye on your tare values and reset as needed, it will work.
I use the FX120i... alot of coin, works very well, should last alot longer (?). So why bother with scales this precise... cause a 223 will show a change in group size every 0.1gr of Varget.
My competition ammo was consistent to 0.04gr over ALL rds... that works out to error of no more then 2 kernels of Varget. You may not need nor care to be this anal but you will see the results on target especially if shooting at LR.
Jerry