To the OP...what an embarrassing post, and representative of the entire "me first" mentality of so many people today, incessantly whining about their feelings being hurt.
I can tell everyone that this guy is NOT representative of the visible minority gun club experience.
I am a visible minority guy, belong to a very rural club where I am the probably the only visible minority there - and you know what? IT DOESN'T MATTER. I DON'T CARE You know why? Because unlike many people who just are looking for a reason to complain, many people who seem to relish in victimhood, and many people who ironically despite railing about the injustices of racism, name calling, and rounding up people by stereotypical groups, instead of viewing everyone as individuals, I go to my range and enjoy shooting but moreso enjoy the camaraderie of the fellas there, almost all of whom are older than me. And guess what - we all are target shooters and hate the Liberals. I don't see them as anything other than fellow shooters with whom I have much in common in terms of interests and politics. Last time I was at my range, a fellow range member came out of the clubhouse to greet me as he saw my car roll in and told me he brought a military surplus rifle for me to try. We had a hoot shooting it and I was very appreciative of his kindness. I have found everyone else at my club to be wonderful decent folks.
Listen - I grew up in an era in the 1970s and 80s where there was indeed real racism - like being attacked for how you look, being spat on in public, and all the commensurate name calling. It's not like these days where it's just the perception of having one's feelings hurt and being offended. And worse, just like some groups, they seem to be hellbent on looking for racism everywhere, even when it is not there. It is a very unhealthy mentality to live by day to day.
Instead, I would suggest a few things - instead of seeing people as different than you, even if they may be (racially, age-wise, rural/urban, social-economically, religiously, etc.), just get to know them as people. Don't shrink into a shell thinking that the whole world is out to get you and that you are discriminated against. The fact that you and the others have not returned shows just how little fortitude you have. And I would dare say, shows the same ignorance you are ascribing to others.
Even if what you said were indeed true, the remedy is not to cower, and avoid places or people. Because if you do, you are making it glaringly obvious the differences between "you" and "them". And that just perpetuates in your mind the divisions.
Something to keep in mind when joining a club - you are subject to the club rules, of which safety rules are of paramount importance. Don't dismiss any advice that is given to you - that is also indicative of people nowadays who just refuse to listen to others' advice and wisdom who have come before them. Exercise some humility and be open that you may learn something from others.
Adopt a different mentality - recognize that not everyone has the opportunity to be in a gun club with like minded people. Once you adopt that mentality you will find that you won't have to do so much to fit in - you already will by virtue that you are showing commonalities in interests as fellow gun owners.
It always reminds me of jazz musician Daryl Davis. An older black man and what is interesting about him is his developed friendships with people who otherwise society would have said he has nothing in common with - he has befriended many KKK and white supremacist members, instead of avoiding them, got to know them as people and at last count over 250 high ranking members of these organizations have renounced their ties to racist groups. Mr. Davis did not go out and intend to convert people - he just saw people as people and saw individuals as individuals. Over time, these people who would have otherwise hated him, saw him the same way, to the point where one of these fellows had Davis walk his daughter down the aisle when she got married.
Dismissing people outright without even taking the time to get to know them is robbing yourself of some rich friendships that can develop with people with whom you may otherwise think you have nothing in common.