first off, Boomer, you're wrong. plain and simply wrong. Bullet setback is one of the most dangerous things you can have happen during reloading. read the links provided in previous posts and learn. if that doesn't work, contact each and every manufacturer of ammo you can and ask the same question. Ask Winchester or Federal why they tell training officers to make sure people don't unload and load the same round into their duty pistols, especially with .40, as that round will eventually become setback and blow the gun apart. If you've been reloading for 30+ years and haven't learned about the dangers of setback then you've been blind to the reams of information available to you. In rifles you go from a simple, often not dangerous, destruction of a handgun, to a very dangerous longarm explosion. Numbers of us here have seen the damage from such things, or even witnessed them first hand. I can't even count the number of guns I've seen that have destructed from this very problem. Working at Dlask I probably saw one every couple of weeks. Your "opinion" on the subject is not based on fact or scientific evidence and will get someone hurt, badly, if you continue to express it as such.
as for the original post. Buy a
Quinetics bullet puller and yank the round next time, refill and reseat the bullet. Decapping live primers, while not recommended in the manuals, is not dangerous. At worst you'll have a small flame pop up inside your die. no issue. cutting a live round with a hacksaw = bad move. If you are really worried and don't have a puller just toss the round in the garbage, or in a fire bin. again, as mentioned before, burning a live round is about as dangerous as blinking. There is no need to make the primer inert, even after pulling the bullet. Toss it, burn it, bury it, re-use it, whatever. Just don't eat it. although that probably wouldn't be a big deal if you only did it a few times.