Amazon.ca stocks deWiart's autobiography, wherein he never once mentions being married, having kids, or being awarded the VC.
Another good read is anything published by Field Marshall Slim. That man could write and lead men with the best of 'em. Bader's book is good too (Paul Brickhill's Reach for the Sky). Guys like that are remarkable human beings. ia spire to be anything like that tough.
FM Slim was one of the most respected and effective allied commanders in WW2 as a result of his efforts in Burma and India. He served as GG of Australia through the 1950s and died in 1970. In 2007 allegations were made in Australia that he had abused several boys at an educational institution. These allegations were never proven. Its sad that his reputation was besmirched by this so many years after his death.