Learn by the experience of others.
When I learned to fly I was also a member of the Mooney Club (my plane was a Mooney). The other owner were very experienced pilots with lots of stories to tell and lessons to learn.
One lesson was to take off and climb on one tank and then, at cruise altitude, switch to another tank. That way, if there is a problem with the second tank (wrong gas, empty tank, won't feed) you have the option to switch back to a known good tank. Otherwise, if you run the first tank dry and then switch tanks, you can have a problem without a good easy solution.
The other thing they suggested was to note the airfields along the route so if there is a problem, you know immediately what direction to turn. I ha a little chart posted in the plane translating altitude (feet) to glide range in miles (plane had a 12:1 glide ratio). 10,000 feet AGL was worth 22 miles.
I had two in flight failures. Out of gas and loss of oil (oil line came of prop governor). In both cases I immediately knew where the nearest airport was. One was almost below me, and the other was a perfect straight in approach with maybe a mile to spare.
Your friend was sabotaged. If he had dipped his tanks, he would have smelled the problem, but he would not usually check or dip the tank unless he was about to make a max range trip.
I hope the family is suing the incompetent, negligent guy and the company. By changing the fuel nozzle, they overrode the safety system.