A friend of my mother's (also British) married a Brit REME officer and was in BAOR during the early '50's - she spoke of German women spitting at her while she was shopping. On the other hand my family was in Soest in the mid '50's (father was Cdn Army) and there was absolutely no apparent animousity. It was a wonderful place - in fact much better treatment of Canadian's in W Germany than in France fwiw. I have never heard of a Canadian soldier or their families stationed there that didnt enjoy the people and the country - most would give anything to return.
Talking with my 91 year old mom the other day, she was fondly recalling her time "on the economy" while stationed at 4 Wing. She said the German women were wonderful, and that when she entered a store to shop, they'd come over, take the child from her arms (me), and care for the child while she shopped.
We were at 2 Wing as well, and that I DO remember. I don't recall any animosity from the French, except toward the end when they left NATO and wanted us out. That didn't affect me as a 5 year old, though.