Best things I can suggest is good lights, a reasonable bench mounted grinder, and a handful of HSS bits to start out with. Nothing wrong with carbide tooling, except that you crunch a $5-$10 tip each time you screw up. And you will. A lot at first, less later.
Practice grinding bits and pay attention to what works for you for grinding techniques.
Remember this. High Speed Steel is so named, because it will hold a cutting edge at red heat and beyond. This means, among other things, that you don't really have to worry about how hot you get the cutting bit while grinding, the cooling pot is so you don't burn your fingers! I like using a pair of Vic-Grips to hold the bit for rapid stock removal, then grind the remainder hand held.
If grinding hard enough to reach red heat, allow the bit to cool slowly in air, down to black, before dipping it. As tough as the stuff is, the heat shock supposedly will cause a micro fracturing on the surface of the tool, if quenched from too hot. But I have never been able to see or demonstrate such, and the next hit on the grinder is going to remove the surface layer in any case.
For those of a mind to tell me to not get the bit hot, go read the heat treat schedule for HSS, esp., for annealing HSS. This, won't do it.
As a point of Historical fact, when HSS was the hot ticket industrially, the tool holder makers, like Armstrong, also provided holders for use while grinding. They typically had a long shank with a ball end on it so you could lean on the bugger with your body weight to get the grinder working. Nobody was being paid to stand around grinding a wee amount at a time off a tool bit worrying about how warm their fingers were.
Buy some stock to practice on. I would suggest 12L14 round or hex if you can find some, and 4140 or 4145 round stock, which is Chrome Moly steel. If you can find a source of 416 Stainless, grab some of that too. The 12L14 is a leaded, free machining steel and is almost as easy to turn a nice finish on as Brass, but nowhere near as expensive. Th other steels are essentially the same steels used for barrels everywhere. they each have their differences, but (relatively) easy machining is pretty much a requirement as barrel stock, generally speaking.
Practice threading. Make threads, cut them off, make more. Work up to a line, then up to a shoulder, etc., until any fear is gone gone gone. Threading is dull, not exciting, etc. Not to be feared, despite the reams of hooey out there written by the afraid.
Cheers
Trev