Hey buddy...go with the P226. I just recently picked up a P226 Elite Dark in 9mm, and the thing is simply awesome! You know how hardcore HK I am...since I made that purchase, which I might add was my first SIG purchase, I picked up a TacOps 40...that's how much I liked the 226. Some guys don't like the beaver tail on the Elite models, but I find that it helps a bit more with "locking" the pistol into your hand...really helps at allowing you to get a firm, yet comfortable grip on the pistol.
I'm not done with SIG yet. I've been eyeing the MK25, and I think that when the right one comes along, I'm not gonna' think twice about whether I should buy it or not...
I don't want to contradict myself, but if you want a couple of options, look at the HK P30 as well. The grip is fantastic, and you can customize it in a number of ways, tailored to your preference. And that whole thing about the trigger being crappy, well, that's just someone else's opinion. Put a few down the pipe, get that trigger working, and you'll see how good it ends up feeling. Maybe it's just me being biased, but HK really turned out fantastic pistol with the release of the P30.
If you were just a bit closer, I would definitely let you test drive 'em both. If you need any more info, you know how to contact me. Later, brother...