it's not just you- like i said, it depends on a lot of things- remember the 220 swift and how quickly it burned out barrels?- personally, i think it's got a lot to do with the 55kpsi pressure limit- step over that , and you start to burn barrels- the 338 win mag factory load uses a 250 grain slug, moving at roughly 2700 fps and that seems to give both good accuracy and barrel life- my bar is as accurate as the day i bought it , back in91- but i also know that's got a 1/12 twist, and i can't expect it to hold with maximum loads and heavy bullets- there's an envelope to each rifle, and step out side that and somethings GOT to give- i would love to try the 300 grain smks, but i know my barrel won't take it- i run out of twist at about 280 or so- i really loved the speer 275 semi-spitzers, but they don't make them anymore; you gained an extra 25 grains weight and only lost 15 fps- and if you shoot anything less than 250, you're handicapping the cartridge imo; remember . this is a 458 win mag neck down to 34 caliber, so the same rules apply