I will address your post separatelly, as you claim to have been there (or at least are able to find it on the map unlike the others)..fair enough.
First off...the bias is literally dripping from your post and it is not your fault, as you had of course been conditioned to see the Russians as the enemies, being that you are on the other side of the barricate.
But I can give it about the same credibility as to a Wehrmacht soldier reporting from the front in 1942 saying how they are kicking ass.
Curious...when you say that you "spoke to the other side"
Did you also speak to those, whose families had been brutally tortured and murdered by Neo Nazi paraphanelia sporting thugs for no other reason, than their primary language being Russian?
But I digress...
What you or your NATO friends are doing in Ukraine does not interest me, aside from admitting that they are there.
Politics aside, let's look at this from yet another angle:
For practical purposes, thid conflict could be divided into 3 stages:
1) US sponsored Maidan coup of 2014
2) Russian special operation which started in 2022
3) Real actual war, which will likely be starting once the ground freezes to certain depth in order to be able to support the heavy equipment.
My opinion on the first stage has already been made more than clear througout my other posts, so nothing new to add there.
As far as the second stage is concerned..there are few factors at play here.
First...Russia has obviously underestimated the level of fortification, which had been achieved in 8 years of western help.
This includes money, equipment, training, military consultants, western mercenaries...etc.
Second..the aim of the special operation was pretty narrow...basically the liberation of the Russian minorities from Nazi thugs like Azov, whim had been murdering and terrorizing them for 8 long years, while the west looked the other way.
This is why the initial Russian contingent was inly about 80 000 at the beginning, which then got topped off to about 150 000 combat troops.
Think of it as more of a limited police operation in it's essence.
Third...their orders were very strict, as far as avoiding to damage any civilian infrastructure (unlike any US operation, in which the civilian infrastructures are always the first to be targeted).
The Ukro-Nazi thugs of course took advantage of this and made a point of hiding their equipment in schools, hospitals etc...the very structures that the Russians were forbiden to attack.
This led to unnecessary losses on the Russian side and it became evident, that in order for this operation to be successfull, more troops will be needed.
With the realization, that the Russian army is now fighting not only the Ukrainian army, but the combined force of NATO which supplies them with virtually unlimited money, intel, equipment, training and personel to operate the western weaponry, along with the foreign mercenaries wearing Ukrainian uniforms, different strategy was needed.
One thing to note, that the value of the western aid had already exceeded 2x the Russian military budget for the whole year and that was expanded in about 8 months.
Despite of this, Russia controlls about 20% of Ukraine (it is now part of Russia), which happens to be the most important part as far as any industry and agricultural lands is concerned.
When you dowplay the significance of places like Bakhmut and Soledar (strangely, the Kiev regime is sending the best they have into these "unimportant" parts).
Soledar for example has either the biggest (or one of the biggest) salt mines in all of Europe.
Do you realize how important all the minerals are to today's economy?
You claiming that these areas are not important is nothing short of idiotic.
So let this sink in.
Russia is now fighting the collective west with all of their fancy weaponry and intel...yet they have no issues with hitting any spot in Ukraine with their hypersonic missiles at will, for which NATO has no analogue.
They now own about 20% of Ukraine (those people voted to be part of Russia), which happens to be the most important part, with a major offensive on the horizon.
But Russia is somehow losing??
Inside your head perhaps, as the likes of you will be waking up to a new reality very soon.