I find it remarkable that we have reached the point in this country where gun ownership has to be a closeted activity. Hell the ###s have come out of the closet and I didn't realize gun owners were in one!
Sadly, we live in a country where all it takes is for your neighbor/ex wife/complete stranger to ACCUSE you of uttering a threat, and because you are a gun owner and especially a handgun owner, your life immediately turns to crap. It doesn't even have to be true. There is nothing you can do but defend yourself in court, and if you are successful and win your case, you are likely financially ruined anyway. I just don't want to deal with that kind of exposure if I don't have to.
Yes it sucks, but being in your face does tend to get people's backs up. Paranoia rules.