O.M.G! I think I just came... For my taste - that's what I call "###y"! Yeah, baby, yeah!
That said, now let me think out loud:
First off, thank you to all of you for the opinions/comments/suggestions/pictures.
Just to clarify things - I don't own a handgun but it doesn't mean I never shot one. For my almost two years membership in one of the local ranges I went through at least 3000 rounds of pistol ammo (I know, could already buy a handgun for the money I spent for membership and ammo there, lol).
However, it gave me a clear understanding what I don't like.
I shot CZ shadow - it's picky for ammo. Any aluminum case ammo brings a fun of FTF to the picture after every second round - jam jam jam....
I shot Glock 17 and Glock 21 - feels like a plastic toy to me - too light however awkward to handle. I shot baby eagle in 9mm - actually liked the feel of it and it operates flawless but it's damn ugly.
I shot sig P226 and Springfield Armory XD in 9 mm - good performance but not my cup of tea. Add to this all kind of exotic and not so handguns and revolvers in .44, .38, .357 - didn't speak to me either. Absolutely hated Beretta in anything I tried - .22, 9mm and .40.
The only two things that I didn't get to shoot is 1911 handgun and H&K. My friend has an exact copy of Colt Government 1911 (air gun tho, lol

) It feels fantastic in my hands but I obviously never tried the real thing. Now, H&K is kinda a mystery to me. I will check who sells them locally and will go and feel it in my hand.
So, to summarize all this delirium: H&K may be "it" for me - money wise, reliability, accuracy and support (all this only from the research I have done - definitely not from experience).
So, let's narrow the search down - what you guys think - H&K or 1911 taking into account all the requirements I mentioned in my first post?