Good news everybody, I have terrible news... (said in my best Professor Farnswoth impression)
200 rounds fired without a single FTF

3 FTE

Hammer following slide for first half of session

Nearly ruined my trigger bar filing down the sear lever to stop previous problem

Realized I didn't need to file, instead needed to bend trigger bar disconnecter nub outward
So, DA was working perfectly but the hammer kept following the slide. After a good bit of head scratching I realized the slide wasn't pushing the trigger bar down enough to clear the safety lever and trip the sear. OK, simple enough, just file the arm on the trigger bar so it clears the safety lever. Hmmm that's a little better, I'll just file some more... That's almost got it, just a bit more filing... Perfect, 10 rounds rapid fire SA every time... Uh, why isn't DA striking the firing pin. Crap the arm is too short to push the saftey lever out of the way in DA now
As I'm stripping things down for the umpteenth time I notice a funny wear spot on the bottom of the slide at the disconnecter notch. It's like it is barely contacting the nub of the trigger bar and just scuffing the very edge as it cycles...
So, If you are having problems, stop... Look... Think... Look some more... Think some more... Look everywhere else... Look again and THEN start using the file...
Fortunately the internals seem to be soft enough to tweak and bend. I was able to bend the arm of the safety lever down a bit to catch the arm of the trigger bar in both SA and DA modes. Now I need to tweak the trigger bar to ensure it is getting reliably pushed down by the slide.
On another note the solid pin in my breach seems to have held up. However, the metal seems to have been too soft and I have a tiny bit of play in the breach block. This is definitely not something I want to live with, so perhaps split pins (good ones) are the way to go. They may have enough spring to them by nature of there design to hold up to the repeated pounding without deforming? The FTE looked to be failures to extract from the chamber. Perhaps it needs some work on the extractor or perhaps it just needs to work in a bit.
Any who... I'm going to score this one as a success as I'm not sporting a slide in my head and it went bang every time
MB